Saturday, July 8, 2017

life with lola: five months!



I know I start every blog post with "how is already..." But seriously! How is it already October, and how is Lola already five months? Erik laughs at me for talking like a Hallmark card sometimes, but our love for this girl is infinite — and it just grows and grows. She's getting cuter, chubbier, and more responsive and interactive by the day.

It's funny that, before she was born, I halfway assumed that we'd fit a baby into our life. I'd be that cool, easygoing mom with a baby in the Ergo at the beach, concert, or restaurant. Sometimes I am that person, but not without a dossier's worth of planning. The reality is that Lola has completely changed the orbit of our lives. Everything revolves around her now, and we're over the moon about that. On to the update...

How's Lola doing? I may be biased, but she's the best. She's developing so quickly. It seems like every day she's doing something new; it's so cool to see the little wheels turning in her mind. Right now, she's grabbing her feet, eating her hands, and *thisclose* to sitting up and rolling over. She loves bouncing in her jumperoo, which is hideous-looking but by far the best baby purchase we've made. She's still sleeping in our room, but we're rolling with it. If there's anything that I've learned as a parent, it's to read all the books and get all the advice...and then do what works for you!

How are mom and dad doing? I'm still around-the-clock busy, but loving life. I even made it out to surf (twice!) with a supportive and inspirational mom friend. Of course, the waves were a mess both times, but it was so wonderful to be in the ocean -- and to do something for myself. Every day, I count my lucky stars that we're both able to spend every day with Lola. It's definitely a scramble, but it's worth it.